As I grew as a person, I knew what type of partner I was looking for any time I evolved, so did my person.
I was looking for someone just like me. My partner had to be everything that I was; I mean, I think im cool, but my freedom is what sets me apart.
I wanted my person to be just as free as I am, not realizing I was locking them in a box that looked like me.
The other night everything in me felt like a wild horse that couldn’t be tamed unless I wanted to be, and I said I wanted my partner to be just as wild and free, and we only tame each other if we wanted to be.
How can I determine someone else’s freedom?
I can’t, but what I can do is show up as the most authentic version of myself. Every time until they feel comfortable enough to do the same.
Let’s face it; when ppl see freedom, they become intrigued and want to know your secrets to keep for themselves.